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Title: Hard decision
Post by: rottentomatomy on 22 Sep, 02:41:11 PM
I'm after a bit of advice from you all hoping someone could help me with making a tough choice of whether or not I should go for a big chop. Here's why.

The last few years my hair just stopped growing, I was going through some personal stuff which took its toll on my mental health and I stopped caring for my hair. This resulted in a lot of breakages and splitting of the ends of my hair as well as lack of proper care made them really dry and eventually damaged and so I've been trimming to stop more damage happening.

My hair at the base of neck is "normal" but about 3 inches past that it's thin due to all the breakages I've had throughout the years. My longest strand is touching tailbone but only 15 strands have reached that length.

It's quite depressing to see the way my hair looks and I'm wondering if I should just chop it or should I persevere and keep going. It doesn't help me and my sister both started growing our hair around the same time from the same length, she has thick long even hair touching butt crack whilst mine is thin and looks stringy with hairs at every length looking frayed.

Has anyone else been in this situation, if so what did you do or would do? I feel hopeless.
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: montyashley on 23 Sep, 05:44:39 PM
its actually sad to hv a pretty long hair but not healthy bcs i used to hv tht type of hair n its scare me alot. i think first thing what u need to do is try to eat n maintain only on healthy food. keep track on product tht u use and try to prevent too much chemical on ur head. just focus on ur scalp, like put organic hair oil on the scalp n quickly wash after n use good shampoo tht will provide nutrients n goods for ur scalp n hair
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: titipoh on 23 Sep, 06:04:25 PM
I dont think if you cut your hair going to solves the problems. Maybe you can try another thing like eating supplements or workout that will give your body boost energy and feel healthy. You have to take care of your sleeping schedule eating time and watch over it. Drink lots of water and keep bottle water stay close to you so you wont forgot to stay hydrate. Try to eat healthy food and enough nutrients before taking any vitamin if worst probably you can see the doctor then they will know better. Whatever that is your mental health comes first then you will be better in any time, for product like shampoo I would suggest use something that will give nutrients on your hair
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: amyraros on 23 Sep, 08:02:21 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: wahidan on 23 Sep, 08:05:39 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also

yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: montyashley on 24 Sep, 08:48:59 PM
I dont think if you cut your hair going to solves the problems. Maybe you can try another thing like eating supplements or workout that will give your body boost energy and feel healthy. You have to take care of your sleeping schedule eating time and watch over it. Drink lots of water and keep bottle water stay close to you so you wont forgot to stay hydrate. Try to eat healthy food and enough nutrients before taking any vitamin if worst probably you can see the doctor then they will know better. Whatever that is your mental health comes first then you will be better in any time, for product like shampoo I would suggest use something that will give nutrients on your hair
this is true. if anything need to focus on mental health first. after that u can go for product tht will help w the nutrients like safi shayla shampoo hv 11 esential oils tht hv nutrients helps with to soften hair and prevent drying on ur scalp or over oily after wash.
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Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: montyashley on 24 Sep, 08:55:01 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: titipoh on 24 Sep, 09:18:11 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also

yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Indeed. You can take supplement onnly when you need it. For shampoo I would recommend safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant this one will hydrate and provides superior silky softness for lightweight, softer, smoother, non oily & manageable hair with long lasting fragrance.
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: wahidan on 24 Sep, 11:06:45 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also

yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Indeed. You can take supplement onnly when you need it. For shampoo I would recommend safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant this one will hydrate and provides superior silky softness for lightweight, softer, smoother, non oily & manageable hair with long lasting fragrance.
yeahh but dont overtake supplment also la. sometimes its too much sugar la and all. so kena jaga diet yg kita boleh trust la product nya.. ohh is safi very good? i heard about thm quite a lot. how long have u been using them?
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: amyraros on 24 Sep, 11:10:47 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
ohh that sounds really interesting? i wanna try that too but probably need to wait my one to finish first. for ur hair product, do u use all from safi or separated products?
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: montyashley on 25 Sep, 05:41:49 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
ohh that sounds really interesting? i wanna try that too but probably need to wait my one to finish first. for ur hair product, do u use all from safi or separated products?
for shampoo i use safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant, then the rest is from safi the leave on cream n hair mask from watson brand. its only when needed then i use the hair mask. but i do recc u to use the shampoo its really good w the long lasting smells
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: titipoh on 25 Sep, 07:50:10 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also

yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Indeed. You can take supplement onnly when you need it. For shampoo I would recommend safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant this one will hydrate and provides superior silky softness for lightweight, softer, smoother, non oily & manageable hair with long lasting fragrance.
yeahh but dont overtake supplment also la. sometimes its too much sugar la and all. so kena jaga diet yg kita boleh trust la product nya.. ohh is safi very good? i heard about thm quite a lot. how long have u been using them?
True somehow the supplement also on certain product have sugar. Yeah I use safi just for 2 months and I love how the product works on me I have no itchy scalp and my hair is not over dry.
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: titipoh on 25 Sep, 08:06:16 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
ohh that sounds really interesting? i wanna try that too but probably need to wait my one to finish first. for ur hair product, do u use all from safi or separated products?
for shampoo i use safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant, then the rest is from safi the leave on cream n hair mask from watson brand. its only when needed then i use the hair mask. but i do recc u to use the shampoo its really good w the long lasting smells
This is true! The smell doesnt even sting or bother or even give headache, which also last until 3 days without wash. If someone who is active and easily sweat this shampoo is really recommended to give it a try!
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: amyraros on 25 Sep, 09:42:03 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
ohh that sounds really interesting? i wanna try that too but probably need to wait my one to finish first. for ur hair product, do u use all from safi or separated products?
for shampoo i use safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant, then the rest is from safi the leave on cream n hair mask from watson brand. its only when needed then i use the hair mask. but i do recc u to use the shampoo its really good w the long lasting smells

ohhh where did u get them? i think its avaialble everywhere rightt. bcs tomorrow im going to watsons. feeling like trying their leave on cream. who knows itll be great to my hair
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: wahidan on 25 Sep, 10:11:06 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also

yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Indeed. You can take supplement onnly when you need it. For shampoo I would recommend safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant this one will hydrate and provides superior silky softness for lightweight, softer, smoother, non oily & manageable hair with long lasting fragrance.
yeahh but dont overtake supplment also la. sometimes its too much sugar la and all. so kena jaga diet yg kita boleh trust la product nya.. ohh is safi very good? i heard about thm quite a lot. how long have u been using them?
True somehow the supplement also on certain product have sugar. Yeah I use safi just for 2 months and I love how the product works on me I have no itchy scalp and my hair is not over dry.
thats rightt .. also if we get supplement but still didnt take care of our health. that is not good also. ohhh uve used them for 2 months alreadyy? thats really nicee. i think im gonna try them soon. do u use them everyday or only after shampoo?
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: montyashley on 26 Sep, 08:12:48 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
ohh that sounds really interesting? i wanna try that too but probably need to wait my one to finish first. for ur hair product, do u use all from safi or separated products?
for shampoo i use safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant, then the rest is from safi the leave on cream n hair mask from watson brand. its only when needed then i use the hair mask. but i do recc u to use the shampoo its really good w the long lasting smells

ohhh where did u get them? i think its avaialble everywhere rightt. bcs tomorrow im going to watsons. feeling like trying their leave on cream. who knows itll be great to my hair
u can get them at watson. dont forget to try the shampoo also will make ur hair super smooth and smell amazing! hope it works on u so u can feel great and smell flowerish each day by using safi shayla shampoo.
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: titipoh on 26 Sep, 08:40:47 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Indeed. You can take supplement onnly when you need it. For shampoo I would recommend safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant this one will hydrate and provides superior silky softness for lightweight, softer, smoother, non oily & manageable hair with long lasting fragrance.
yeahh but dont overtake supplment also la. sometimes its too much sugar la and all. so kena jaga diet yg kita boleh trust la product nya.. ohh is safi very good? i heard about thm quite a lot. how long have u been using them?
True somehow the supplement also on certain product have sugar. Yeah I use safi just for 2 months and I love how the product works on me I have no itchy scalp and my hair is not over dry.
thats rightt .. also if we get supplement but still didnt take care of our health. that is not good also. ohhh uve used them for 2 months alreadyy? thats really nicee. i think im gonna try them soon. do u use them everyday or only after shampoo?
Very true. Yeah since the shampoo works on me so I dont need to change to anything else. For shampoo I use every 2 or 3 days unless im active or going to the gym or anytime I sweat a lot so then I will shampoo daily bcs it helps a lot with oils and not striping our natural oils. For leave on cream you can use everyday but prefer after shampoo and leave it until dry and can style normally. Hope this helps, if you want to try you can look it up at watson.
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: wahidan on 26 Sep, 08:43:07 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
yeaa i agreee on this one. cuz we r what we eat rightt. so we need to take care of your body first. let say just eat more fruits or nuts that can help with hair growth! for supplement i would suggest blacksmores or 21st century. also keep urself hydrated. for shampoo i barely have a good one
Indeed. You can take supplement onnly when you need it. For shampoo I would recommend safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant this one will hydrate and provides superior silky softness for lightweight, softer, smoother, non oily & manageable hair with long lasting fragrance.
yeahh but dont overtake supplment also la. sometimes its too much sugar la and all. so kena jaga diet yg kita boleh trust la product nya.. ohh is safi very good? i heard about thm quite a lot. how long have u been using them?
True somehow the supplement also on certain product have sugar. Yeah I use safi just for 2 months and I love how the product works on me I have no itchy scalp and my hair is not over dry.
thats rightt .. also if we get supplement but still didnt take care of our health. that is not good also. ohhh uve used them for 2 months alreadyy? thats really nicee. i think im gonna try them soon. do u use them everyday or only after shampoo?
Very true. Yeah since the shampoo works on me so I dont need to change to anything else. For shampoo I use every 2 or 3 days unless im active or going to the gym or anytime I sweat a lot so then I will shampoo daily bcs it helps a lot with oils and not striping our natural oils. For leave on cream you can use everyday but prefer after shampoo and leave it until dry and can style normally. Hope this helps, if you want to try you can look it up at watson.
ohhh that sounds really nice. i think i might need to try the leave on cream first since my serum is almost finished. later on ill recommend it to my family members as well. since safi is very easy to find also right
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: amyraros on 26 Sep, 09:01:24 PM
it is indeed very hard to take care of our hair when we are not in a good state, i hope u can recover soon! but my advice is to start from inside, take care of your diet first then, u can use certain products to take care of ur hair laa. example, u can have supplements for hair and nails? that one works also
true! fruits and protein. can probably start from there then add on w other products. but if wants to use some product tht easy to use can try safi shayla supa smooth shampoo. this one can make ur hair hydrate and wont dry out ur hair this even suitable for hijabis.
ohh that sounds really interesting? i wanna try that too but probably need to wait my one to finish first. for ur hair product, do u use all from safi or separated products?
for shampoo i use safi shayla supa smooth & fragrant, then the rest is from safi the leave on cream n hair mask from watson brand. its only when needed then i use the hair mask. but i do recc u to use the shampoo its really good w the long lasting smells

ohhh where did u get them? i think its avaialble everywhere rightt. bcs tomorrow im going to watsons. feeling like trying their leave on cream. who knows itll be great to my hair
u can get them at watson. dont forget to try the shampoo also will make ur hair super smooth and smell amazing! hope it works on u so u can feel great and smell flowerish each day by using safi shayla shampoo.

ahhh yeaaa im going to watsons this saturday then to get them hihih. bcs i also want my hair to be pretty too. so then i dont need to use so much perfume to stay fresh and fragrant
Title: Re: Hard decision
Post by: montyashley on 30 Sep, 02:20:31 PM
ahhh yeaaa im going to watsons this saturday then to get them hihih. bcs i also want my hair to be pretty too. so then i dont need to use so much perfume to stay fresh and fragrant
Stil got stock now, got mine already better fast coz it sells like hot cakes.
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Or just buy online laa... check thier official online store... https://shopee.com.my/Safi-Shayla-Supa-Smooth-Fragrant-Shampoo-320g-i.35308287.8059726156
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